She said she was there to help with the baby.
We both knew she was there because I’d told her what I’d found—and she wasn’t about to let her daughter face this alone.
She never said I told you so.
Not once.
She just helped. Changed diapers. Did dishes. Held Lily May when I needed to work late on my research. Made dinner. Listened when I needed to vent.
That restraint—her not pointing out that she’d warned me about Brent three years earlier—was its own kind of gift. Maybe the best gift she could have given me.
I thought about my grandmother a lot during that time.
Lillian May Dickerson—the woman Lily was named after.
Grandma Lily had raised four kids alone after her husband died in a factory accident in 1962. She never complained, never remarried. She just did what needed to be done, every single day, for years.
She used to tell me that Dickerson women were made of stronger stuff than most people realized.
We just didn’t advertise it.
I was finally starting to understand what she meant.
I became a forensic accountant on my lunch breaks. Never thought my medical billing skills would transfer so well to investigating my own husband. I also used to think I was bad at math.
Turns out I’m excellent at math.
I just needed the right motivation.
Nothing sharpens your arithmetic like discovering your husband is a thief.
On a Tuesday afternoon in late June, while Brent was at his father’s shop planning their next fishing trip, I finally called Patricia Okonquo.
I told her everything—the hospital, the fishing trips, the money, the boat, the texts, the business ownership, all of it.
She listened without interrupting, asked a few clarifying questions, and then fell silent for a moment.
When she spoke again, she said five words that changed everything:
“You have an excellent case.”
Patricia Okonquo’s office was on the third floor of a brick building in downtown Harrisburg, about an hour’s drive from Williamsport. The elevator was slow, the carpet was worn, and the waiting room had magazines from 2019.
None of that mattered.
What mattered was the woman behind the desk.
Patricia was forty-four, with close-cropped gray hair and reading glasses she wore on a chain around her neck like a weapon she might deploy at any moment. She’d been a forensic accountant for twelve years before going to law school, and she’d switched careers after her own bad divorce.
Her walls were covered with framed photos of her two teenage sons and certificates from various legal associations. Her desk was buried under case files. She looked like someone who worked eighty hours a week and loved every minute of it.
She charged $350 an hour.
I nearly choked when she told me.
But then she said something that made me stay.
She offered payment plans for cases she believed in.
And after reviewing my documentation—the bank statements, the boat receipt, the text messages, the business records—she believed in mine.
When she finished reading, she smiled.
Not a friendly smile.
The smile of someone who sees victory on the horizon and can’t wait to get there.
“Let’s talk about what you’re entitled to,” she said.
The discovery phase of my divorce revealed things even I hadn’t expected.
Patricia subpoenaed the financial records for Holloway Pipe and Fixture LLC, and what came back was a disaster. The business owed $134,000 in back taxes—three years of what Patricia politely called creative accounting.
What the IRS would call fraud.
Multiple vendors were owed money. Suppliers had cut them off. The company was technically insolvent, surviving only on cash infusions.
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