Her hands were shaking so badly she almost dropped it.
“Read this when you get home tonight,” she said. Her voice trembling so severely I could barely understand the words.
“Promise me you’ll read it, Chris. Promise.”
My own voice wasn’t much steadier when I answered. “I promise. I will.”
I slipped that note into the inside pocket of my rented navy blue jacket. Like it was something incredibly fragile and precious.
Like it might shatter into a thousand pieces if I handled it wrong. Like opening it too soon would break something that couldn’t be fixed.
But I didn’t read it that night.
I couldn’t.
The truth is, it hurt too much to even think about reading it. Every time I touched that jacket, felt the slight crinkle of paper in the pocket, my chest would tighten.
My eyes would burn with tears I refused to let fall.
I told myself I’d read it later. When it wouldn’t feel like voluntarily ripping my own heart out.
Later turned into tomorrow. Tomorrow turned into next week.
Next week turned into next month. Next month turned into next year.
And somehow, impossibly, next year turned into fourteen years.
Building A Life In Germany
Life didn’t pause or slow down to accommodate my grief or fear. Life just kept moving forward relentlessly, pulling me along whether I was emotionally ready or not.
I moved to Munich with my parents. I started medical school, which immediately became the most overwhelming experience of my life.
The language barrier alone nearly destroyed me those first few months. Trying to learn complex medical terminology in German while keeping up with coursework felt impossible.
The academic pressure was absolutely relentless. Long nights studying until my eyes burned and I could barely focus.
Even longer days of clinical rotations where I was constantly terrified of making a mistake that could hurt someone.
The constant, gnawing doubt about whether I was actually good enough to be there. Whether I deserved this opportunity.
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